POSITIVELY & HAPPILY SINGLE

POSITIVELY SINGLE

Happily Single
Single & happy

For anybody dying to be in a relationship, I think it is important to reflect on why you want to be in a relationship.

Are you doing it because you do not want to be lonely?

For financial gain? What?

I know many people have heard this but being single is not a curse, it can be a blessing.

I will explain it this way. Have you ever seen someone jump from relationship to relationship, and depending on who they're with, determines who they are?

For example, if they are with someone who likes cars then they like cars, if they are with someone who loves to party, then they like to party.

And when they are not with that person then their interests change when they meet with someone else.

This poses danger. This is why sometimes it is a blessing why being single is important.

To be single is to first know yourself, your desires, your purpose, and your life path.

When you grow to be comfortable with yourself this is when you can move into a successful relationship.

So being single is not the worst thing in the world. It is better than bending to become something you are not just to satisfy the person you are with.

It is better to get to know yourself, this way you know what you look for, and when you know what you look for you know who to marry, and the person you should marry should complement you. But you can never get to that point if you do not know who you are.

We often become so dependent on being around someone else that we forget that it is still enjoyable and good to be single.

Sad

When we are single, many of us drown in depression and alters our progress. And because of it many jumps into a relationship that is harmful to their mental health and perhaps even more.

However, you should start enjoying being single if this is the situation that you find yourself in.

Single is not just a status, but a description of a person who is strong enough to handle life without being dependent on others.

There are many reasons why you should embrace being single and just be happy

1. When you are single, you can focus on yourself, be yourself, and learn to appreciate yourself. 

There is no harm in getting some 'me' time. 

You allow yourself to be more open and uninhabitable, and so you learn more about yourself and reconnect with 'you'.

Focus
Focus

2. It allows you to consider what has happened in previous relationships and how it has been affected. 
There are going to be good memories, while others are not so great. 
You have to separate the two, appreciating the positivity and then pulling it from the negative. 
This will be a process of growth and will help you to let go of the past and enjoy the present.

Unsatisfied relationship


3. Being newly single, you may feel it to lose everything. 

It may take some time to pass, but in the meantime, pay attention to the things you think you have lost and find out what it is missing. 

This will not only give you a new outlook, but you can start doing things you could not do before.

4. Some changes are good while some are bad. 

However, we cannot be afraid of change and must consider being single to be a good one and enjoy it. 

Many people have confusion about where to hang out and what to do, fear meeting new people after becoming single. 

Take it one step at a time and things will fall into place. 

You may even find that you can do and see more now that you are unattached.

Change
Change

5. Being single can be an option to come out through a bad breakup or to move on with your life. 

Either way, you should realize that being single does not mean that you should throw love out the window. 

Being open to love allows you to meet new and interesting people.

Meet new people
Meet new people

6. Everything in life happens for a reason.
 
If you are single it means the purpose of being in this situation. 

It can be a chance to find yourself or a chance to find someone better for you. 

There is no need to hurry and it is best to let things fall into place.

However, always keep in mind that this journey is to be enjoyed.

Being single is often seen in a negative light and associated with difficult times.

People can find themselves alone because a relationship ended against their wishes. Or a person may want a partner, but they are unable to find the right one.

Being the only single in a social circle can feel uncomfortable, especially when getting older. 

Sometimes, it can be stigmatized and many people feel judged because of their circumstances.

However, there are millions of people who really enjoy being single; they don't view their life as second best or expect pity. 

Instead, they embrace freedom and new opportunities

Being single is natural and healthy

Single and happy


There is no such thing as normality and many singles are the happiest people on the planet.

These days, there is less pressure to get married. This allows more time to choose the right partner and many people wait for years or decades until they settle down.

Others reject relationships completely and treat being single as a lifestyle choice.

For many, being alone is a natural life transition that occurs after a divorce or the death of a spouse. 

Instead of expecting a partner to complete them, many singles stay positive and live life to the full.

You have avoided a bad match

Bad match
Bad match

People rarely break up with "the one" and couples usually split for a good reason.

Becoming single after a failed relationship can feel daunting and upsetting, especially after being dumped. 

But really, the universe is allowing you to live your life and eventually meet the right person.

Also, you no longer have to endure your ex-partner's irritating habits and unpleasant characteristics.

You are emotionally free

Emotionally free
Emotionally free

Being in love can dominate a person's life. Sometimes, these powerful emotions can cloud thinking and feel controlling.

Being single is often an opportunity for peace of mind, clarity, and freedom from heartache.

You avoid the bad stuff in relationships

Argument & fight
Argument & fight

As a single person, you don't need to worry about your partner's expectations.

You don't have to make a good impression on your partner's friends and family or have marital arguments.

You don't have to compromise or do things simply to please a spouse; you have the freedom to call the shots.

You have control over your money

Control over own money
    Money

You don't have to compromise your spending habits or share your finances with a partner. 

This can avoid many arguments, making life easier and more peaceful.

In addition, this independence can make you feel more empowered and secure.

It is a good time for self-discovery

Discover self
Discover self

Being single is the perfect opportunity to discover personal qualities and reflect on things.

It is no coincidence many monks, nuns, and religious gurus use celibacy to enhance their self-development.

Time alone often requires you to draw on inner strength to survive.

Learning to enjoy your own company and be independent is empowering; it also gives a healthy foundation to base future relationships on.

Being single can develop your understanding

Single people can forget what being in a relationship can feel like.

Likewise, people in a relationship can forget what being single feels like.

Spending time alone is likely to develop a sense of empathy for your single friends.

This can add new life to certain friendships.

You can transform your life

Power within you

Being single is like being given a clean slate and you can create a new life without compromising things for a partner.

Many singles choose to move or go traveling; it is also an opportunity to focus on your career or change your appearance.

This is a liberating time when extraordinary things happen.

Friendships and family take priority

Friends & family
Family & Friends

Time spent in a relationship can be spent with your friends and family instead. 

This gives endless opportunities for fun and emotional fulfillment.

Reconnecting with old acquaintances can feel wonderful. 

At the same time, meeting new people and developing a social circle can open new doors in your life.

It is a good time to start new hobbies

Hobbies
Have Hobbies

Single people often have extra time to enrich their lives with new interests.

There are numerous clubs, societies, and classes that cater to a diverse range of hobbies.

This can be exciting and offer endless possibilities; many people develop a passion for activities they start when they are single.

Being single is the perfect time to date

You have the freedom to find your ideal partner; there are many single people to choose from.

This is a time when you can become the leading lady or man in your own romantic story.

Dating is often a lot of fun and is a good way to increase your self-confidence, make new friends, and maybe find a relationship.

Enjoying life is sexy

Enjoying life

Few things are more attractive than a happy person who loves their life.

Finding contentment as a single person will make it easier for you to attract positive people.

Also, keeping busy with activities and socializing makes it easier to find a like-minded partner.

What can we do to remove the stigma of being single?

  1. Realize that the time invested in yourself is more accurately valued for making the next decision.
  2. Note that couples often look happy, but they also have problems with them. The concept of being in a relationship is very different than being active in one. Take rest
  3. Realize that bringing your best self into a new situation will be valuable because it allows us to make something real with another person.
  4. No matter what happens in life, including a breakup, we have to trust ourselves when the dust settles. If we live a mostly peaceful and happy life, then the actions of others do not matter to our existence.
  5. When we don't need someone else, daily life feels sweeter and easier. Then when someone comes along, it is a partnership versus immediate gratification and the potential loss of another relationship. Take your time to find your way.
  6. Take the time to assess what you want in each area of your life. Keep the focus on yourself. When you are happy, know your intention for areas of your life, and are living your truth that is when a person who is right for you will appear.
  7. Remember, you are not broken. No matter how society makes you feel or tells you who you should be, you have time to make that decision. Do not rush it. Take the time to find out what is right for you. Rushed decisions bring stress.
  8. Start by taking small steps in the activities that you enjoy. Often people fill their schedules with activities to distract them from not getting into a relationship. Instead, a better solution is to focus on activities that will bring joy and meaning.

Removing the pressure of other people's opinions can work wonders.

Sitting quietly with a good book and reflecting on the time that is right for you is never lost time. 

Soundless time is an investment in the future.

Taking time to invest in ourselves will pay huge benefits.

The chances of a strong future relationship with another person are much easier if we are happy with or without the other person's company. 

The other person should be a compliment to who you are, not the person you need.

Life doesn't have to focus on finding a mate you can grow old with.

Not all great things come with a loving partner.

Single life, too, offers plentiful opportunities not all people realize.

You just have to realize that it neither makes you a smaller person nor means you are less loved.

Love self
Self Love

Finally, we all need to learn to love ourselves before we can fully contribute to a satisfying relationship.

If you don't know how to make decisions and act in ways that are not good for yourself, you will keep attracting the same unpleasant experiences with different people.

Know that you don't need validation from others to feel good about yourself and the better you are at loving yourself when you are alone, the easier it will be to attract and maintain a loving relationship.

I know that it may not be easy in the beginning to feel good enough without a mate, but loving yourself is an ongoing process that pays off in the long run.

Being single is great.

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  4. Great article. No matter what, one should always remain happy.

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  5. That's really true. I have asked few of my friends who are married. What you liked single or married. Most of them are said. Single life is a golden period.

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  6. That's true single life is the most amazing period of our life. I missed those days

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  7. Being happy is a self concept. We don't need others to be happy. Happiness is self satisfaction. If we are satisfied from within we are happy in true sense. Good work 👍

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  8. Single life is really enjoyable. I missed my single life.

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